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How to Be Reconciled With Someone (Even If You Didn’t Start It)
There’s a moment in nearly every broken or strained relationship when something deep inside you recognizes that things aren’t right. You can sense the distance. You feel the tension. You notice the discomfort that sits quietly beneath the surface. And yet, everything in you resists making the first move.
Perhaps you feel wronged. Misunderstood. Overlooked. Maybe you’re still waiting for the apology that never came — and in your mind, the next step is clearly someone else’s

Dwight Schettler
23 hours ago8 min read


How We Are Reconciled to God — and Why It Changes Everything
There are moments in life when the need for healing becomes impossible to ignore.
Sometimes it’s a sharp exchange you wish you could take back.Sometimes it’s a relationship that once felt solid but now feels fragile.Sometimes it’s that quiet ache in your conscience—a sense that something inside is not as it should be.

Dwight Schettler
5 days ago4 min read


How to Forgive Someone Who Hurt You Deeply: A Gospel‑Shaped Path Forward
If someone has wounded you deeply—and the thought of forgiving them feels impossible—you are not alone. Some hurts come from people who should have protected us. Some catch us so off‑guard they alter more than a moment—they alter who we became in that moment. And some injuries run so deep that “moving on” feels like a foreign language.

Dwight Schettler
Jan 194 min read


Living for Christ, Not Yourself: A Biblical Response to Conflict
Conflict enters our lives without permission. It arises in moments we did not anticipate and in ways we would never choose. A careless word, a misunderstood action, an unexpected confrontation—these can send ripples through our relationships and unsettle our hearts. Yet Scripture invites believers to see conflict through a lens far deeper than frustration, fear, or self‑protection. Conflict becomes a spiritual crossroads that raises a defining question: For whom shall we live

Dwight Schettler
Jan 56 min read


When Workplace Conflict Becomes an Invitation From God
What if the toughest conflicts at work aren’t random headaches to endure, but invitations from God? What if every sharp email, every derailed meeting, every uncomfortable performance conversation is a moment where your Father is reshaping how you respond—because you are His precious child?

Dwight Schettler
Jan 14 min read


Introduction to Conflict Resolution vs Reconciliation YouTube Series
We are thrilled to announce the release of our brand-new 6-part video series, Introduction to Conflict Resolution vs. Reconciliation! This series is designed to help individuals, families, and communities understand the critical differences between resolving conflict and pursuing true reconciliation—and why that distinction matters for lasting peace and restored relationships.

Dwight Schettler
Dec 14, 20253 min read


Learn to Reconcile According to the Bible
In a world increasingly marked by division, misunderstanding, and relational breakdown, the hunger for reconciliation is growing. People are searching for ways to restore what’s been lost—whether in families, churches, workplaces, or communities.

Dwight Schettler
Oct 29, 202514 min read


How Can I Live With Them?
In a recent coaching appointment, someone sat across from me, visibly burdened. Their voice trembled as they asked, “How can I live with them?”

Dwight Schettler
Sep 30, 20253 min read


Lesson 1: Remember Whose You Are
The following posts comprise lesson 1, Remember Whose You Are: ...

Dwight Schettler
Mar 23, 20252 min read


Why is Reconciliation More Difficult Than Conflict Resolution?
In the complex dance of human relationships, conflict is an inevitable guest. We encounter misunderstandings, disagreements, and sometimes o

Dwight Schettler
Mar 14, 20252 min read


Did God Choose Conflict Resolution or Reconciliation in Response to My Conflict with Him?
When we ponder our relationship with God and the issue of conflict, it is essential to delve into the scriptures for guidance. 2 Corinthians

Dwight Schettler
Mar 14, 20252 min read


The Consequences of Being in Conflict with God
Conflict with God is a profound and grave matter that affects the very essence of our existence. To be in conflict with God means to be estr

Dwight Schettler
Mar 14, 20252 min read


My Most Serious Conflict in All of Life is with Whom?
Life is a journey marked by various conflicts and challenges. However, the most serious conflict I face is not with another person, not with

Dwight Schettler
Mar 14, 20252 min read


Do We Need Conflict Resolution or Reconciliation? Could the Answer Be 'Both'?
Conflict resolution and reconciliation are two distinct processes that address different aspects of a disagreement or discord. In conflict r

Dwight Schettler
Mar 14, 20252 min read


When in Conflict with Someone Who Doesn't Yet Know Christ
In our walk of faith, we often encounter individuals who do not share our beliefs. Conflict with non-believers can be challenging, but the B

Dwight Schettler
Mar 14, 20252 min read


Viewing a Brother or Sister in Christ Amidst Conflict
In our spiritual journey, conflicts with our brothers and sisters in Christ are not uncommon. How should we view these individuals during su

Dwight Schettler
Mar 14, 20252 min read


Viewing Others as Someone For Whom Christ has Died
Conflict is an inevitable part of life. Whether it is with family members, colleagues, or friends, disagreements and misunderstandings can a

Dwight Schettler
Mar 14, 20252 min read


I May Be My Brother's Keeper, Especially in Conflict
Reconciliation is a concept that touches the very essence of human relationships and spiritual well-being. To understand who needs to be rec

Dwight Schettler
Mar 14, 20252 min read


I Need to be Reconciled to Others - and It Doesn't Matter Who Started It!
In the teachings of Jesus, reconciliation holds a vital place, particularly in the context of relationships among believers. According to Ma

Dwight Schettler
Mar 14, 20252 min read


First, I Need to be Reconciled to God
Reconciliation addresses the deepest rifts within our hearts and between our relationships. But who, indeed, needs to be reconciled? The sim

Dwight Schettler
Mar 14, 20252 min read
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