Before anything else, I want to make one thing unmistakably clear: I am not writing about the scandal itself. I am not analyzing the details, the personalities, the allegations, or the commentary that continues to swirl around it. Instead, this article speaks to something far more widespread and far more spiritually urgent: the way Christians are talking about the scandal—and talking about all the talking.

Many Christian couples enter marriage with a sincere longing for peace, believing that with enough prayer, patience, and perseverance, harmony will eventually arrive. Yet over time, a quiet ache often grows beneath the surface—a hope that seems endlessly deferred. A husband or wife waits for the other to soften, to listen, to understand, to finally change the pattern that keeps wounding them. What begins as hope gradually turns into a kind of vigil, as though the entire futur

If someone has wounded you deeply—and the thought of forgiving them feels impossible—you are not alone. Some hurts come from people who should have protected us. Some catch us so off‑guard they alter more than a moment—they alter who we became in that moment. And some injuries run so deep that “moving on” feels like a foreign language.

There are moments in the Christian life that feel heavier than others. Few are as disorienting, painful, or vulnerable as being confronted about sin or placed under some form of church discipline. Even when handled carefully, biblically, and with genuine love, being “on the receiving end” can stir questions that go far deeper than the specific issue at hand. If that is where you find yourself today, this word is for you.

For many Christians, Matthew 18 has quietly become a kind of procedural checklist - a three‑step conflict‑management sequence we recite almost automatically: go to them, bring witnesses, tell the church. We often use it like a built‑in eject button, assuming Jesus handed us a formula for getting difficult people out of our lives or out of our communities. If someone won’t listen, well, that’s that.

We have three more graduates! Dedicated individuals are inspired to serve those affected by conflict. One group, after years of preparation—including over 50 hours of hands-on conciliation experience, mentorship from an Advisor, detailed casework documentation, and extensive training through our Institute for Christian Conciliation (ICC) Certification Program

Conflict enters our lives without permission. It arises in moments we did not anticipate and in ways we would never choose. A careless word, a misunderstood action, an unexpected confrontation—these can send ripples through our relationships and unsettle our hearts. Yet Scripture invites believers to see conflict through a lens far deeper than frustration, fear, or self‑protection. Conflict becomes a spiritual crossroads that raises a defining question: For whom shall we live

What if the toughest conflicts at work aren’t random headaches to endure, but invitations from God? What if every sharp email, every derailed meeting, every uncomfortable performance conversation is a moment where your Father is reshaping how you respond—because you are His precious child?

Church conflict is uniquely painful because it occurs within the very community called to display Christ’s reconciling love to the world. When disagreements intensify, when personalities collide, or when factions form, the people of God feel the weight of it in their minds, their worship, and their relationships. This is why requests like the one posed—How do we care for those experiencing difficult church conflicts? How do we respond to antagonists? How do we help relationsh

Matthew 18 is one of Jesus’ most transformative teachings—yet one of the most misunderstood. It’s a chapter about greatness, forgiveness, spiritual vulnerability, and the urgent call to pursue reconciliation. At its center is a radical truth: in God’s kingdom, greatness looks nothing like what our world calls great.

We are thrilled to announce the release of our brand-new 6-part video series, Introduction to Conflict Resolution vs. Reconciliation! This series is designed to help individuals, families, and communities understand the critical differences between resolving conflict and pursuing true reconciliation—and why that distinction matters for lasting peace and restored relationships.

We’ve all heard the advice: “Just forgive and move on.” It sounds simple, even noble—but for many, that phrase carries an unspoken expectation: if you forgive someone, you must also reconcile with them. The truth is, forgiveness and reconciliation are not the same thing. Forgiveness is an act of grace that frees your heart from bitterness; reconciliation is a mutual process that restores trust and relationship through confession and forgiveness. One can happen without the oth

Thursday, December 4, 2025 3pm Mountain Time Keynote Speaker: Annette Friesen Each year, dedicated individuals are inspired to serve those affected by conflict. One group, after years of preparation—including over 50 hours of hands-on conciliation experience, mentorship from an Advisor, detailed casework documentation, and extensive training through our Institute for Christian Conciliation (ICC) Certification Program—has reached a significant milestone. Earning the Certified

Reconciliation Ministry in the Age of AI is a call to reflect deeply on the transformative role faith communities play in promoting healing, understanding, and unity amid rapid technological advancement. Within today’s interconnected world, the importance of reconciliation is magnified: divisions persist across personal, communal, and societal levels, and the need for bridge-building grows ever more urgent.

In a world increasingly marked by division, misunderstanding, and relational breakdown, the hunger for reconciliation is growing. People are searching for ways to restore what’s been lost—whether in families, churches, workplaces, or communities.

The ministry of reconciliation is one of the most profound and transformative callings given to believers in Christ. Rooted in the apostle Paul’s declaration in 2 Corinthians 5:18–20, it is described as a divine entrustment—God making His appeal through us to a broken world

We’re thrilled to unveil our 2026 Training Calendar, packed with transformative opportunities to grow in as a reconciler.

In every ministry, there are people who are difficult to love. They may be combative, critical, withdrawn, or simply resistant to the work of the Spirit. These individuals can test our patience, challenge our convictions, and ...

In a recent coaching appointment, someone sat across from me, visibly burdened. Their voice trembled as they asked, “How can I live with them?”

As an ambassador of reconciliation, one is called to live with integrity, embodying the principles of peace and justice in every aspect of life. This role is not merely a title but a commitment to uphold the values of the Christian faith ...